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After High School: What to Do? College vs. Trade School

March 8, 2024
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Years ago, when I spent 6 years as a high school counselor, we encouraged our students to attend college. We helped them find a college who offered the major they wanted. We also looked for ways for them to be able to pay for it. Some received athletic scholarships, others received a variety of scholarships and grants depending on their circumstances. There was one thing that was troublesome to all of us: the rising cost of college to the point of ridiculousness.


This blog is intended to address some of the issues around attending college vs. trade school.


COLLEGE


1. If you know the career you would like to pursue, before you enroll in college, check on the availability of actual jobs in that career. Business Insider lists a group of jobs comparing the annual pay for 2022 and  projected pay for 2032. This includes the education required for each job.  They have a well-rounded selection of jobs ranging from a high school diploma to a master’s or doctorate degree, but most are a bachelor’s degree. Health care and computers are two of the most popular types of jobs, but some of the trades are also in the list that includes outstanding pay.


2. If the career you want does require a 4-year (or more) degree, shop for the college that would best meet your needs. If living on campus is necessary, make sure you are familiar with the dorm situation. When I took my daughter college shopping, we had tours of several colleges and universities that had the major she was interested in pursuing. We knew what we were looking for, however; we let the tour guide tell us about the college before asking questions. We were trying to get the truest picture of the campus and what they had to offer by not putting words into their mouths.

One college really stood out in our minds when we noticed only some of the dorms had air conditioning. This was an area where sweltering, humid air was common. We were told that what determined whether you had a room with air conditioning or not was the number of credits you had. Usually, Juniors and Seniors had air conditioning and the others could buy a fan. That college was scratched from the list. Living off-campus was not an option; there was no place close to rent.


Pre-college visits are very important to get an idea of what feels comfortable to the individual student. We visited several between her Junior and Senior year of High School.


Here are some take-aways from that trip.


1. Several of the schools were located in the eastern part of the United States. We were from the West. The culture of each area was totally different, not bad, just different. Consider the culture of the area when making a choice. The student’s personality needs to be considered. You want them to be comfortable wherever they attend college, and the culture of the general area does make a difference.

2. Have a list of questions that are important to you while viewing each college. This can be a mental list or written down. We had a check list which we used after each visit. We also wrote down anything else we wanted to remember so we could adequately compare the colleges.

3. If your student is planning to live on campus, make sure you see the dorms. The difference in the dorms from one college to the next was huge. Some were very nice with a bathroom located in each room. Others had one common bathroom at the end of each hall. Also, some rooms served 2 girls while others served 3 or 4 depending on the configuration and how much you wanted to pay.

4. Is the campus secure? Some seem to have no real security, while others are fenced and gated with armed security guards at each entrance.

5. Will it be possible to complete a 4-year program in 4 years? Some colleges make it difficult to get all the classes needed for a chosen major within the 4-year time frame. This leads to many additional expenses. Many colleges now have the option of taking some of the classes online and attending others at the same time so that they all fit into the schedule.

6. Each person will have other things that they need to consider, so give it some thought ahead of time.


TRADE SCHOOLS


What if you are not interested in attending college and want to learn a trade? I know many people who are very mechanically inclined, that might prefer to learn a specific trade. Anyone who owns a vehicle or a house knows and appreciates someone in the trade they need, when something needs to be repaired. Electricians and plumbers are always in demand and are well paid. There are probably trades that would be a good fit for just about anyone who is willing to learn them. If this is an area of interest, here are some things to consider.


1. Check with your high school counselor to see if there are any classes that will count toward certification in a trade and also give you high school credit at the same time. I know we had several available in our community when I was a high school counselor. One of our students took welding classes at night, and by the time he graduated from high school, he had already earned several certifications and was on his way to a good career.


2. Take the time to check out your community college. Most have many great trade options for a very reasonable cost compared to a college degree.


3. Choose something you enjoy doing, so you can look forward to your classes. This will also help you be successful in your career.


4. Don’t be afraid to test out a few trade classes to see what you really like and what comes natural to you.


Another Option: MILITARY SERVICE


Today’s military has many options, and although this is not the focus of this Blog, if you are interested in serving our country and have thought about the military as an option, check out all the branches of service. They all have unique opportunities that might interest you. After you have completed some of your own research, and have a general idea of what you are looking for, especially which branch of service, it might be time to contact a recruiter.

Important to Remember:

Whether you choose to attend college, trade school, or enlist in the military, you can be successful. Sometimes people multiple careers over the course of their lifetime. Be open-minded and purposeful in all you do, but don’t waste your time, because you can’t get it back.



February 4, 2025
Many parents know that finding an adequate amount of time to help their children succeed in school is difficult at best. Having been a classroom teacher for more years than I care to admit, I know that as hard as the teacher tries to meet all of the needs of the students in her class, the students that seem to do the best are the ones whose parents are actively involved with their child’s education. So the big question is, “How do I find the time?” When I started teaching, I was not married and had no children. Life was not too complicated. As time went on life changed. With a husband and a child in the picture, I found myself dealing with the role of a teacher and a parent. My child needed extra help just like most other children. I started figuring out ways to help my child while we did other things. One of my favorites was word games. One doesn’t need to be a super multitasker to do these with their child while fixing dinner. Hence: Small Bites. This doesn’t take the place of sitting with your child one-on-one if they are really struggling, but it is a very useful way to keep your child thinking and learning while you are cooking. Game #1 “Rhyming Words” The beauty of this simple game is that it helps a child with reading sounds. If they can read one word with the end sound, it actually opens up a whole chain of words that they will be able to read by just changing out the beginning sound. Maybe your child’s job is to feed the cat, so let’s start by coming up with as many words as you can that rhyme with cat. Remember, they all must have the at sound at the end of the word. (Examples: bat, brat, chat, fat, flat, gnat, hat, mat, pat, rat, sat, scat, slat, splat, that, vat) If your child feeds the dog, then you can rhyme words with dog. (Examples: bog, clog, fog, frog, grog, hog, jog, log, smog) Goats seem to have become popular again. See how many words you can come up with that rhyme with goat. Notice that all of the words do not end with the same letters: oat and ote . (Examples: bloat, boat, coat, dote, float, gloat, moat, note, oat, quote, smote, throat, tote, vote, wrote) Since I’m on a roll with animals, how about words that rhyme with pig. (Examples: big, brig, dig, fig, gig, jig, rig, sprig, twig, wig, zig) Game #2 “Sounds to Words” This game is intended for beginning readers who are working on putting sounds together to form words. Start by giving 3 or 4 sounds such as / d // o // g /. Have the child repeat back the 3 sounds and then put them together to make the word dog . Obviously, the words are endless, but I’m giving you a few so you can concentrate on fixing dinner. / f // u // n / fun / h // a // t / hat / r // a // t / rat / m // o // m / mom / d // i // g / dig / j // u // m // p / jump / s // w // i // m / swim / r // e // d / red This game can be played until you or the child are tired and want to stop. Sometimes when you are doing word games, it’s better to keep them short, especially at the beginning. The length of the game is totally up to you. Game #3 “Geography Chain” This game is better with children who are a little older, and was one of my family’s favorites. Acceptable answers include the names of: countries, states, provinces (Canada), cities, etc. Set the rules of what’s acceptable before you start. Start with the name of one of the above categories such as: Spain . Because Spain ends with the letter N , the next geographical place would need to start with the letter N , such as New Mexico . This ends with an O , so the next response might be Ontario . Another location that starts with O could be Oregon . We could use New York and so on. Take turns and when someone cannot think of a place to continue the chain, they can drop out if more than 2 are playing or you can start over. Another chain might look something like this: K entucky, Yemen, Nigeria, Alaska, Antarctica, Alpine (city), Escondido (city), Oklahoma, Arkansas, etc. As you can see, many places end with an A or an O . It is helpful if you try to think of places that don’t end with one of these letters. Word to the Wise These untimed interactive games work well for learning math facts also. Through my many years of experience, memorizing addition facts, subtraction facts, multiplication facts, and division facts are a major key in being successful in math. Memorization of multiplication facts are the most important. Without actually memorizing these, all other math becomes tedious and frustrating in elementary school, and we want are kids to love math without the frustration that it can bring. When I have had kids in my classes who are totally frustrated with math, the main cause is not learning multiplication facts by the end of 3 rd grade. If your child is past 3 rd grade and they have not memorized these facts yet, do not despair, it’s never too late to work on this skill.
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