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How to Use Finger Spelling to Help Your Child Become a Better Speller

March 16, 2023

How to Use Finger Spelling to Help Your Child Become a Better Speller


If you have ever been frustrated with trying to help your child with their spelling

words, you are not alone. Spelling is hard for many students, but especially difficult

for dyslexics. If you have ever really looked at their spelling, many times there doesn’t seem to be any rhyme or reason to why they spell the way they do. Many teachers have their students write their spelling words five times each or more. I used to do this as a classroom teacher until I discovered that the students for whom spelling correctly came easily didn’t need to do this, and the students who struggled with spelling may have written the word correctly only one time out of five.


There are much better ways to conquer spelling.


Finger Spelling, especially for beginning words is amazing. This is how it works.

Let’s use the word cat. Ask your child (or student) how many sounds are in cat. Have

them hold up one finger as they make each sound /c//a//t/. Then ask, “How many sounds are in cat?” Hopefully, they can look at their three fingers and know that there are only three sounds in the word cat.


Next, have them write the letter for each of the three sounds: /c//a//t/. Let them know that they do not need to add any other letters to the word. This may seem strange to some; however, in my experience, I have seen many students spell a word correctly only to add two or three extra letters to the end of the word because it seemed too short or didn’t look right to them. Therefore, they misspelled the word. Counting the sounds by using their fingers, and then writing just those sounds is a great way to spell correctly. Of course, English is complicated and not all words can be sounded out this way, but it helps a young child to spell correctly and not just give it their “best guess” as the Whole Language approach to reading dictates.


When the words become longer, I like to help them hear and spell each word one syllable at a time. This helps them break down the words into smaller pieces. Again they can start by counting the syllables with their fingers so they know how many syllables they must write to form the word. Many teachers use “claps” for each syllable. This also works well, but they need to remember how many “claps” they had so they can break down the word to spell correctly.


Here’s an example: “How many syllables are in the word backpack?” It would be divided /back/ /pack/ so that would be two syllables. In this case we have a compound word. Now how many sounds are in back? Three: /b//a//ck/ and there are also three in /p//a//ck/. Now have your child write down the sounds for each syllable.


This may seem a little confusing at first, but the more it is used, the easier it becomes. The reward is more words spelled correctly the first time around. I have used this method with many students who could never spell any words correctly on a spelling test. The look on their faces when they spelled most of the words correctly is priceless.


Being successful in such a small thing for us can be a huge win for them. This is a true self-esteem builder.


Remember, this is a starting point for spelling. There are many other little tricks to spelling as the words get longer and harder. I often think how lucky we are to live in a time where technology can help us become better spellers. I always wondered why we were told as kids to look up the word in the dictionary so we could spell it correctly. If we didn’t know how to spell the word, we didn’t know where to find it in the dictionary. I bet a lot of you reading this post heard those words as a child only to be frustrated.


Happy Spelling!

February 4, 2025
Many parents know that finding an adequate amount of time to help their children succeed in school is difficult at best. Having been a classroom teacher for more years than I care to admit, I know that as hard as the teacher tries to meet all of the needs of the students in her class, the students that seem to do the best are the ones whose parents are actively involved with their child’s education. So the big question is, “How do I find the time?” When I started teaching, I was not married and had no children. Life was not too complicated. As time went on life changed. With a husband and a child in the picture, I found myself dealing with the role of a teacher and a parent. My child needed extra help just like most other children. I started figuring out ways to help my child while we did other things. One of my favorites was word games. One doesn’t need to be a super multitasker to do these with their child while fixing dinner. Hence: Small Bites. This doesn’t take the place of sitting with your child one-on-one if they are really struggling, but it is a very useful way to keep your child thinking and learning while you are cooking. Game #1 “Rhyming Words” The beauty of this simple game is that it helps a child with reading sounds. If they can read one word with the end sound, it actually opens up a whole chain of words that they will be able to read by just changing out the beginning sound. Maybe your child’s job is to feed the cat, so let’s start by coming up with as many words as you can that rhyme with cat. Remember, they all must have the at sound at the end of the word. (Examples: bat, brat, chat, fat, flat, gnat, hat, mat, pat, rat, sat, scat, slat, splat, that, vat) If your child feeds the dog, then you can rhyme words with dog. (Examples: bog, clog, fog, frog, grog, hog, jog, log, smog) Goats seem to have become popular again. See how many words you can come up with that rhyme with goat. Notice that all of the words do not end with the same letters: oat and ote . (Examples: bloat, boat, coat, dote, float, gloat, moat, note, oat, quote, smote, throat, tote, vote, wrote) Since I’m on a roll with animals, how about words that rhyme with pig. (Examples: big, brig, dig, fig, gig, jig, rig, sprig, twig, wig, zig) Game #2 “Sounds to Words” This game is intended for beginning readers who are working on putting sounds together to form words. Start by giving 3 or 4 sounds such as / d // o // g /. Have the child repeat back the 3 sounds and then put them together to make the word dog . Obviously, the words are endless, but I’m giving you a few so you can concentrate on fixing dinner. / f // u // n / fun / h // a // t / hat / r // a // t / rat / m // o // m / mom / d // i // g / dig / j // u // m // p / jump / s // w // i // m / swim / r // e // d / red This game can be played until you or the child are tired and want to stop. Sometimes when you are doing word games, it’s better to keep them short, especially at the beginning. The length of the game is totally up to you. Game #3 “Geography Chain” This game is better with children who are a little older, and was one of my family’s favorites. Acceptable answers include the names of: countries, states, provinces (Canada), cities, etc. Set the rules of what’s acceptable before you start. Start with the name of one of the above categories such as: Spain . Because Spain ends with the letter N , the next geographical place would need to start with the letter N , such as New Mexico . This ends with an O , so the next response might be Ontario . Another location that starts with O could be Oregon . We could use New York and so on. Take turns and when someone cannot think of a place to continue the chain, they can drop out if more than 2 are playing or you can start over. Another chain might look something like this: K entucky, Yemen, Nigeria, Alaska, Antarctica, Alpine (city), Escondido (city), Oklahoma, Arkansas, etc. As you can see, many places end with an A or an O . It is helpful if you try to think of places that don’t end with one of these letters. Word to the Wise These untimed interactive games work well for learning math facts also. Through my many years of experience, memorizing addition facts, subtraction facts, multiplication facts, and division facts are a major key in being successful in math. Memorization of multiplication facts are the most important. Without actually memorizing these, all other math becomes tedious and frustrating in elementary school, and we want are kids to love math without the frustration that it can bring. When I have had kids in my classes who are totally frustrated with math, the main cause is not learning multiplication facts by the end of 3 rd grade. If your child is past 3 rd grade and they have not memorized these facts yet, do not despair, it’s never too late to work on this skill.
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